People perceive black to be slimming. So, wearing black is very often a lack of confidence thing. It creates a mask of invisibility. Women hide behind it. I know I did. Wednesday Addams of The Addams Family fame once said, “I’ll stop wearing black when they make a darker color”. I think that applies to many of us.
Black is only slimming because it makes us disappear. Black can be overpowering, and navy or brown are better alternatives for most women, charcoal grey for some. Only those with a Winter or Deep palette wear black well but I would still advocate diffusing the black with jewellery or scarves if wearing black close to the face.
“Black is modest and arrogant at the same time. Black is lazy and easy – but mysterious. But above all, black says this: I don’t bother you – you don’t bother me” – Yohji Yamamoto, Japanese fashion designer. This sums up the dichotomy of wearing black for me. On the one hand black is classic and elegant and iconic – think Coco Chanel’s little black dress.
So yes, black has its place but many women think black is the most flattering colour they can wear and for the majority of us it is the complete opposite. Black drains the skin of colour, particularly as we age. Black is too severe against the softer tones of mature skin and can make fine lines, wrinkles and circles under the eyes appear darker.
Despite the fact that we know black is ageing and sucks the life out of most of us, I would never advocate ‘ditching the black’ unless you are in a financial position to do so.
Instead, I would suggest adding accessories or detail close to your face – this is the most important place for colour to be. Add pattern or print or neckline details such as ruffles, zips, lace. A statement necklace or earrings – not both (we’re not trying to emulate Bet Lynch here!) - can elevate an outfit. An added touch of blusher or lipstick will also prevent you looking washed out if black is a must. But be sure to add accessories in the colours that suit you.
A colour analysis will diagnose a palette of colours for you and you can begin slowly introducing these colours. You’ll be blown away by the difference.
Scarves are a girl’s best friend in introducing colour into a black coalpit wardrobe. It’s a great starting point if you recognise the impact wearing black can have and want to begin to address this.
Afterall, being invisible’s one thing. Looking old is another!
